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Ch. 5 Love - Flashcards

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Class:	CFS 201 - Family Development
Subject:	Child & Family Studies
University:	Syracuse University
Term:	Fall 2010

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What is Love?

A deep and vital emotion, combined with a caring for an acceptance of the beloved, and resulting in an intimate relationship

It is increasingly important in an impersonal society such as ours

3 vital components
- a deep and vital emotion
-satisfies legitimate personal needs
-involves caring an acceptance

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Commitment

-committed lovers have fun together; but also share tedious times
-express themselves freely
-do not see problems as indications that relationship is over
-work to maintain their relationship
-characterized by a willingness to work through problems and conflicts

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Legitimate Needs

aka "being needs"

arise in the present rather than out of the deficits accumulated in the past

ex. ongoing social and emotional support

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Illegitimate Needs

aka "deficiency needs"

arise from feelings of inadequacy; often count on other to convince them they are worthwhile; no amount of loving will convince a person that he/she is worthwhile or lovable

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Intimacy

-involves:
~sexual intimacy
~psychic intimacy- engaging in self-disclosure

-capacity to share one's inner self with someone else and to commit oneself to that person despite the need for some personal sacrifices

-being supportive and fun

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What is not Love?

1. Martyring- reluctant to say what they want; never protests; helps develop loved ones talents but neglect own; hide feeling

2. Manipulating- ask others to do something they could have; assume others will do what the want happily; consistently late; don't reciprocate actions

3. Limerance- fantasize about being with limerant object; little concern for limerant objects well being; can turn into real love but often does not

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Eros

intense emotional attachment and powerful sexual feelings or desires

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Agape

unselfish; personal sacrifice

can exist between family and friends

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Ludus

- enjoys many sexual partners rather than searching for a serious relationship

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Mania

-rests on sexual attraction and emotional intensity; jealous and moody; attention craving

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Storge

-affectionate; mutual commitment; respect

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Pragma

assesses partners assets and liabilities

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What is Love?	A deep and vital emotion, combined with a caring for an acceptance of the beloved, and resulting in an intimate relationship It is increasingly important in an impersonal society such as ours 3 vital components - a deep and vital emotion -satisfies legitimate personal needs -involves caring an acceptance
Commitment	-committed lovers have fun together; but also share tedious times -express themselves freely -do not see problems as indications that relationship is over -work to maintain their relationship -characterized by a willingness to work through problems and conflicts
Legitimate Needs	aka "being needs" arise in the present rather than out of the deficits accumulated in the past ex. ongoing social and emotional support
Illegitimate Needs	aka "deficiency needs" arise from feelings of inadequacy; often count on other to convince them they are worthwhile; no amount of loving will convince a person that he/she is worthwhile or lovable

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Intimacy	-involves: ~sexual intimacy ~psychic intimacy- engaging in self-disclosure -capacity to share one's inner self with someone else and to commit oneself to that person despite the need for some personal sacrifices -being supportive and fun
What is not Love?	1. Martyring- reluctant to say what they want; never protests; helps develop loved ones talents but neglect own; hide feeling 2. Manipulating- ask others to do something they could have; assume others will do what the want happily; consistently late; don't reciprocate actions 3. Limerance- fantasize about being with limerant object; little concern for limerant objects well being; can turn into real love but often does not
Eros	intense emotional attachment and powerful sexual feelings or desires
Agape	unselfish; personal sacrifice can exist between family and friends

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Ludus	- enjoys many sexual partners rather than searching for a serious relationship
Mania	-rests on sexual attraction and emotional intensity; jealous and moody; attention craving
Storge	-affectionate; mutual commitment; respect
Pragma	assesses partners assets and liabilities

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	What is Love?	A deep and vital emotion, combined with a caring for an acceptance of the beloved, and resulting in an intimate relationship It is increasingly important in an impersonal society such as ours 3 vital components - a deep and vital emotion -satisfies legitimate personal needs -involves caring an acceptance
	Commitment	-committed lovers have fun together; but also share tedious times -express themselves freely -do not see problems as indications that relationship is over -work to maintain their relationship -characterized by a willingness to work through problems and conflicts
	Legitimate Needs	aka "being needs" arise in the present rather than out of the deficits accumulated in the past ex. ongoing social and emotional support
	Illegitimate Needs	aka "deficiency needs" arise from feelings of inadequacy; often count on other to convince them they are worthwhile; no amount of loving will convince a person that he/she is worthwhile or lovable
	Intimacy	-involves: ~sexual intimacy ~psychic intimacy- engaging in self-disclosure -capacity to share one's inner self with someone else and to commit oneself to that person despite the need for some personal sacrifices -being supportive and fun
	What is not Love?	1. Martyring- reluctant to say what they want; never protests; helps develop loved ones talents but neglect own; hide feeling 2. Manipulating- ask others to do something they could have; assume others will do what the want happily; consistently late; don't reciprocate actions 3. Limerance- fantasize about being with limerant object; little concern for limerant objects well being; can turn into real love but often does not
	Eros	intense emotional attachment and powerful sexual feelings or desires
	Agape	unselfish; personal sacrifice can exist between family and friends
	Ludus	- enjoys many sexual partners rather than searching for a serious relationship
	Mania	-rests on sexual attraction and emotional intensity; jealous and moody; attention craving
	Storge	-affectionate; mutual commitment; respect
	Pragma	assesses partners assets and liabilities
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